Thresholds
The Light Dark Training Program
Eight months to train, play and live your Light and Dark more deeply.
October, 2026 - May, 2027
LET’S GO FURTHER.
If you have trained with us in a workshop or 1:1, you already know how deep this work can go. For years people have asked us: When will LDI offer a training program?
We've held this question all along, but the timing never felt right. Until now.
Thresholds is an eight month program to go further into this work than you have before. Further into Integrated Power, Scenes and Ordeals, transformational BDSM, Darketypes™ and so much more, alongside a cohort of other people who know this work.
A THRESHOLD IS THE LINE BETWEEN WHO YOU HAVE KNOWN YOURSELF TO BE, AND WHO YOU ARE CAPABLE OF BECOMING.
Whether small or large, life gives you opportunities to cross such lines all the time. The Thresholds Training Program gives you the tools and practice to recognize these moments in real time, and to step across them in intentional ways again and again – building the kind of self-trust that helps you live more fully in your truest potential.
CHOOSE YOUR EXPERIENCE
There are two ways to experience Thresholds:
the Core Track and the Practitioner Track.
#1 The Core Track
Can you stay in Integrated Power (“I fucking love myself, and I fucking love you”) when your partner is furious with you? Can you recognize when control is serving you and when it is protecting you from surrender?
The Core Track trains Light and Dark as a living practice: in your relationships, family dynamics, sexuality, work and leadership. In the parts of life where your patterns don't politely announce themselves before they appear. You get access to more of yourself, capacity to play a bigger game, and more choice than ever.
What the Core Track is about:
↣Build deep intimacy and skill with your Darketypes™ – tracking how the Needy Wretch, the Controller, or the Violent Destroyer show up differently in different areas of your life, and having easy access to play with them and their gifts.
↣Learn to stay in Integrated Power when it actually costs you something, not just in a workshop bubble, but when your partner is furious, your team is in chaos, or your own conditioning is offering you the exit.
↣ Get repeated, escalating access to full power and full surrender, not as a weekend peak experience, but as a practiced, reliable range you can drop into on demand.
↣ Turn shame into ownership on a longer timeline – integrate the parts of you that hide, grasp, or destroy so deeply that they become allies instead of one-time guests.
↣ Train for the moment before the threshold – the instant your conditioning would normally take the wheel – until choice becomes available exactly when you need it most.
↣ Experience the power of being deeply known by a consistent cohort – over eight months, you'll play, witness, challenge, and support one another through both light and shadow, creating a level of trust, intimacy, and understanding that's simply not possible in a weekend workshop.
↣ Up-level what's possible in your relationships by accessing levels of connection, creativity, and play you can't reach until you're bringing your whole Light and Dark self to the people you love.
↣ Build leadership and power that can actually create what you want in the world, not power as performance, but power as a trained capacity you can direct toward what matters to you.
↣ Practice radical acceptance of what is – including learning to stay open to and even enjoy the most intense sensations life brings you, rather than bracing against them.
↣ Expand your relationship with the dark and this wild living world through nature play and by meeting wilderness, elements, and the natural world as another doorway into your own wild wholeness.
↣ Deepen your connection to the mystical side of this work – the parts of Light and Dark practice that go beyond tools into connection with deep mystery.
↣ Move through 4 in-person immersions, 4 online intensives, and ongoing pod gatherings – a rhythm designed so the work keeps colliding with your real relationships, real leadership, and real life between each one.
#2 The Practitioner Track
The Practitioner Track includes everything in the Core Track, with an additional layer of training for space holders and leaders who want to become more skillful at meeting darkness in other people. Whether you work 1:1, facilitate groups, hold transformational or erotic spaces, or lead people inside an organization, this track is about how you hold others when darkness enters the room.
Tani and Leslie will take you inside the work they have spent years developing at the Light Dark Institute: how to hold another person's system when darkness arises, support exploration without pushing someone somewhere they are not choosing to go, track yourself while you track another human, and work consciously with power, consent and boundaries.
You will learn to build strong containers for edgy, erotic and transformational work, and recognize when your own darkness is trying to take the reins.
This is training in the craft and responsibility of holding humans in the Dark.
**Please note: the Practitioner Track is intended for you to learn skills to use in your own practitioner work, it does not certify you to facilitate for LDI.
What the Practitioner Track is about:
↣ Everything from the Core Track PLUS:
↣ Leave with skills built for wherever you hold a position of leadership: coaching, therapy, communities, organizations, business. Darkness goes anywhere humans go, and these skills will serve you in any area where you want to lead.
↣ Develop the capacity to stay present with your own activation, triggers, or turn-on while you're holding space so your material doesn't quietly run the room.
↣ Develop the craft of opening a door without pushing someone through it, supporting real exploration while someone else stays fully at choice.
↣ Get explicit training in power, consent, and boundaries as a living practice – including how to recognize the exact moment your own darkness has walked into the room.
↣ Build the specific container-holding skills edgy, erotic, and transformational work demands – the difference between a space that merely looks safe and one that actually is.
↣ Get direct training in ethics and power dynamics inside the holder-client relationship – the specific responsibilities that come with being trusted in this role, and pitfalls to watch out for.
↣ Learn to hold a clean container under any conditions – then apply that same clarity to everything from erotic energy in the room to a live sales conversation, without collapsing the container either way.
↣ Learn where your vulnerability serves your clients and where it tips into enmeshment – the line between being real with someone and needing something from them.
↣ Receive a full additional day of training at every intensive, both in-person and via Zoom, dedicated entirely to the responsibility of holding others in the dark.
EIGHT MONTHS OF TRAINING, PLAY AND PRACTICE.
Thresholds moves between deep in-person immersion and the rest of your life.
At the immersions, you will play. Enter Scenes and Ordeals. Explore dominance and submission, power and surrender, and transformational BDSM. Return to Integrated Power and the Darketypes™ with more time to follow what opens.
Then you go home. You take the work into your relationships, sexuality, leadership and what you are creating in the world. You notice what is available to you. And what disappears.
Then you come back and train again.
THRESHOLDS WILL INCLUDE:
4 In-person Immersions
• two 6-day immersive overnight retreats (+ one more day for Practitioner Track)
• two 4-day immersive overnight retreats (+ one more day for Practitioner Track)
*Retreats will start in the afternoon on the first day and end in the afternoon on the last day
Monthly Q & A Calls
• 1 hour live Zoom Q&A call with Leslie & Tani each month of the program (+ additional 30 minutes for Practitioner Track)
4 Online Zoom Intensives
• One full day for Core Track participants (+ one additional full day of training for the Practitioner Track)
Live 1:1 Calls
• Practitioner Track only - three 30 minute 1:1 coaching calls with either Tani or Leslie
Intimate Pod Gatherings
• Your own small, intimate group that will meet (virtually or in-person) 1-2 times per month
Huge value:
• 20 days of in-person immersions (24 days for Practitioner Track)
• 4 days of live Zoom intensives (8 days for Practitioner Track)
• 7 hours of live Q&A calls with Tani & Leslie (10.5 hours for Practitioner Track)
• Ongoing intimate practice calls
INVESTMENT
The investment for this training is ALL-INCLUSIVE. Overnight accommodations and catering are included for each of the 4 in-person immersions. See FAQ section for details on accommodations.
THE CORE TRACK
Early Bird before August 15th: $12,500
Regular after August 15th: $13,500
*There will be a 4% charge for payments made by credit card.
Breakdown of pricing (early-bird):
Room & Board - $2,750
Program Tuition - $9,750
Core Track Includes:
↣ 20 in-person days:
↣↣ 2 all-inclusive 6 day in-person immersions
↣↣ 2 all-inclusive 4 day in-person immersions
↣ 4 live Zoom days:
↣↣ Saturday Zoom trainings once a month between in-person immersions
↣ Additional monthly meetings:
↣↣ intimate pod sessions 1-2 times a month
↣↣ monthly 60 minute Q&A call with Tani & Leslie
THE PRACTITIONER TRACK
Early Bird before August 15th: $15,750
Regular after August 15th: $16,750
*There will be a 4% charge for payments made by credit card.
Breakdown of pricing (early-bird):
Room & Board - $3,500
Program Tuition - $12,250
Practitioner Track Includes:
↣ 24 in-person days:
↣↣ all the same immersions as Core Track plus a full extra day at each one
↣ 8 live Zoom days:
↣↣ Saturday & Sunday Zoom trainings once a month between in-person immersions
↣ Additional monthly meetings:
↣↣ intimate pod sessions 1-2 times a month
↣↣ same monthly 60 minute Q&A call as Core Track + 30 extra minutes
↣ 3 one-on-one 30-minute coaching calls with either Tani or Leslie
OCTOBER
Opening Immersive Overnight Retreat in Lakeport, CA
Core Track: October 20th–25th
Practitioner Track: October 20th-26th
NOVEMBER
Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: November 7th
Practitioner Track: November 7th & 8th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT
DECEMBER
Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: December 19th
Practitioner Track: December 19th & 20th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT
JANUARY
Immersive Overnight Retreat in Philo, CA
Core Track: January 21st-24th
Practitioner Track: January 21st-25th
FEBRUARY
Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: February 13th
Practitioner Track: February 13th & 14th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT
MARCH
Immersive Overnight Retreat in Philo, CA
Core Track: March 11th-14th
Practitioner Track: March 11th-15th
APRIL
Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: April 17th
Practitioner Track: April 17th & 18th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT
MAY
Closing Immersive Overnight Retreat in Lakeport, CA
Core Track: May 11th–16th
Practitioner Track: May 10th-16th (Please note: just for this closing immersion the extra day for Practitioner Track is at the beginning rather than the end)
***All in-person immersions will start in the afternoon of the first day and end in the afternoon on the last day.
Program Schedule:
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes — you need to have worked with us in some capacity in person before. This could be through any of our in-person workshops, such as Light Dark Foundations, Advanced Dark Play, Embracing the Darkness or other LDI workshops. It also includes LDEs and the Earth Shadow Intensive. Any one in-person workshop or intensive is a sufficient prerequisite.
This is not an introduction to transformational work. Thresholds is designed for people who already have deep experience exploring themselves and are ready to work with Light and Dark at this level over eight months. -
No. Although the Darketypes™ online course provides a very deep understanding of the Darketypes™, it does not delve into the kind of power play we explore in live workshops. You must attend an in-person workshop to gain some experience in that territory before joining Thresholds. There are several opportunities to take a prerequisite before Thresholds begins — see our website offerings tab for more details.
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Our workshops are immersive experiences of Light Dark work. You enter a carefully held container, go deep and explore alongside people using the same tools and language.
Thresholds is sustained training. Over eight months, you have more time to play, practice and go further with the same people. You take the work back into your life, see where it holds and where it disappears, then return to train again. The goal is for these capacities to become more available to you in real time, not only something you remember after the fact.
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We are going further into the full range of Light Dark work: Integrated Power, dominance and submission, power and surrender, transformational BDSM, Scenes and Ordeals, nature play, and continued work with the Darketypes™ and the gifts they hold.
See the bullet points earlier on this page for more details. -
The Practitioner Track is for space holders and leaders who want to become more skillful at meeting darkness in other people. You might work 1:1 with clients, facilitate groups, hold transformational or erotic spaces, or lead a team or organization. While we will be emphasizing guidance and wisdom that applies directly to spaceholding professions, there will be many tools that are relevant for anyone in a position of leadership.
The common thread is not your profession. It’s that other humans look to you for leadership, guidance or support, and you want to become more skillful at holding what emerges when darkness is at play.
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No. The Practitioner Track is designed to develop skills you can bring into your own work. It does not certify you to facilitate for the Light Dark Institute. We are also not teaching you marketing skills for your personal offerings. We are however, teaching you skills for how to build strong, safe containers for holding people in darkness, and how to keep your side of the street clean and clear as a leader and holder. Pracitioners who can hold darkness with exquisite skill and clear ethics are rare — you will walk away with highly marketable skills that your clients will deeply appreciate.
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Our original announcement estimated $9,000–$15,000 as the cost for Thresholds tuition (depending when you enrolled and which track you chose). But the important distinction is that (as was noted in all of our original promotional materials), we originally intended to charge room & board as a separate cost for all the in-person immersions. Since then, we decided to include room & board in the program price (it actually allows us to offer a discount on those fees). So the price range is actually the same as what we originally estimated, it’s just that now the room & board price is rolled in.
In addition, we've added content and experiences we hadn't originally planned for, without raising the price estimate. All in all, we are now offering greater value for the same price than when we gave the original estimate. -
We do include room and board for each of the 4 in-person immersions and what’s included varies depending on the immersion location.
For the October and May immersions, tent camping is included and a variety of upgrades are available for an additional cost.
For the January and March immersions, a bunk bed in a shared room is included and upgrades are available for an additional cost.
Both immersions have high-quality, mostly plant-based catered meals included. -
Of course you will gain the most from this program by attending everything that is included. However, we do understand that over 8 months, people have busy lives and might not be able to make every single offering.
For the in-person immersions, we ask that you prioritize attending these and the first one, in October, is mandatory. If you have to, you can miss one of the other 3 immersions and still remain in the program. If you miss more than one immersion, you will not be allowed to continue the program.
For the Zoom sessions, please attend live if possible. However, we will send out a recording after each one. If you miss it live, you are required to watch the recording before the next program event (whether it’s a Zoom or in-person event). -
The first day of the immersion (whether a Tuesday or Thursday) there will be an afternoon arrival time with dinner as the first included meal.
The last day of the immersion will end on Sunday for both tracks after lunch which is the last meal that is included. (Practitioner track will begin on Monday of the last retreat for the extra day)