Thresholds

The Light Dark Training Program


Eight months to train, play and live your Light and Dark more deeply.

October, 2026 - May, 2027

LET’S GO FURTHER.

If you have trained with us in a workshop or 1:1, you already know how deep this work can go. For years people have asked us: When will LDI offer a training program?

We've held this question all along, but the timing never felt right. Until now

Thresholds is an eight month program to go further into this work than you have before. Further into Integrated Power, Scenes and Ordeals, transformational BDSM, Darketypes™ and so much more, alongside a cohort of other people who know this work.

A THRESHOLD IS THE LINE BETWEEN WHO YOU HAVE KNOWN YOURSELF TO BE, AND WHO YOU ARE CAPABLE OF BECOMING.

Whether small or large, life gives you opportunities to cross such lines all the time. The Thresholds Training Program gives you the tools and practice to recognize these moments in real time, and to step across them in intentional ways again and again – building the kind of self-trust that helps you live more fully in your truest potential.

CHOOSE YOUR EXPERIENCE

There are two ways to experience Thresholds:
the Core Track and the Practitioner Track.

#1 The Core Track

Can you stay in Integrated Power (“I fucking love myself, and I fucking love you”) when your partner is furious with you? Can you recognize when control is serving you and when it is protecting you from surrender?

The Core Track trains Light and Dark as a living practice: in your relationships, family dynamics, sexuality, work and leadership. In the parts of life where your patterns don't politely announce themselves before they appear. You get access to more of yourself, capacity to play a bigger game, and more choice than ever.

What the Core Track is about:

Build deep intimacy and skill with your Darketypes™ – tracking how the Needy Wretch, the Controller, or the Violent Destroyer show up differently in different areas of your life, and having easy access to play with them and their gifts.

Learn to stay in Integrated Power when it actually costs you something, not just in a workshop bubble, but when your partner is furious, your team is in chaos, or your own conditioning is offering you the exit.

Get repeated, escalating access to full power and full surrender, not as a weekend peak experience, but as a practiced, reliable range you can drop into on demand.

Turn shame into ownership on a longer timeline – integrate the parts of you that hide, grasp, or destroy so deeply that they become allies instead of one-time guests.

Train for the moment before the threshold – the instant your conditioning would normally take the wheel – until choice becomes available exactly when you need it most.

Experience the power of being deeply known by a consistent cohort – over eight months, you'll play, witness, challenge, and support one another through both light and shadow, creating a level of trust, intimacy, and understanding that's simply not possible in a weekend workshop.

Up-level what's possible in your relationships by accessing levels of connection, creativity, and play you can't reach until you're bringing your whole Light and Dark self to the people you love.

Build leadership and power that can actually create what you want in the world, not power as performance, but power as a trained capacity you can direct toward what matters to you.

Practice radical acceptance of what is – including learning to stay open to and even enjoy the most intense sensations life brings you, rather than bracing against them.

Expand your relationship with the dark and this wild living world through nature play and by meeting wilderness, elements, and the natural world as another doorway into your own wild wholeness.

Deepen your connection to the mystical side of this work – the parts of Light and Dark practice that go beyond tools into connection with deep mystery.

Move through 4 in-person immersions, 4 online intensives, and ongoing pod gatherings – a rhythm designed so the work keeps colliding with your real relationships, real leadership, and real life between each one.


#2 The Practitioner Track

The Practitioner Track includes everything in the Core Track, with an additional layer of training for space holders and leaders who want to become more skillful at meeting darkness in other people. Whether you work 1:1, facilitate groups, hold transformational or erotic spaces, or lead people inside an organization, this track is about how you hold others when darkness enters the room.

Tani and Leslie will take you inside the work they have spent years developing at the Light Dark Institute: how to hold another person's system when darkness arises, support exploration without pushing someone somewhere they are not choosing to go, track yourself while you track another human, and work consciously with power, consent and boundaries.

You will learn to build strong containers for edgy, erotic and transformational work, and recognize when your own darkness is trying to take the reins.

This is training in the craft and responsibility of holding humans in the Dark.

**Please note: the Practitioner Track is intended for you to learn skills to use in your own practitioner work, it does not certify you to facilitate for LDI.

What the Practitioner Track is about:

Everything from the Core Track PLUS:

Leave with skills built for wherever you hold a position of leadership: coaching, therapy, communities, organizations, business. Darkness goes anywhere humans go, and these skills will serve you in any area where you want to lead.

Develop the capacity to stay present with your own activation, triggers, or turn-on while you're holding space so your material doesn't quietly run the room.

Develop the craft of opening a door without pushing someone through it, supporting real exploration while someone else stays fully at choice.

Get explicit training in power, consent, and boundaries as a living practice – including how to recognize the exact moment your own darkness has walked into the room.

Build the specific container-holding skills edgy, erotic, and transformational work demands – the difference between a space that merely looks safe and one that actually is.

Get direct training in ethics and power dynamics inside the holder-client relationship – the specific responsibilities that come with being trusted in this role, and pitfalls to watch out for.

Learn to hold a clean container under any conditions – then apply that same clarity to everything from erotic energy in the room to a live sales conversation, without collapsing the container either way.

Learn where your vulnerability serves your clients and where it tips into enmeshment – the line between being real with someone and needing something from them.

Receive a full additional day of training at every intensive, both in-person and via Zoom, dedicated entirely to the responsibility of holding others in the dark.

EIGHT MONTHS OF TRAINING, PLAY AND PRACTICE.

Thresholds moves between deep in-person immersion and the rest of your life.

At the immersions, you will play. Enter Scenes and Ordeals. Explore dominance and submission, power and surrender, and transformational BDSM. Return to Integrated Power and the Darketypes™ with more time to follow what opens.

Then you go home. You take the work into your relationships, sexuality, leadership and what you are creating in the world. You notice what is available to you. And what disappears.

Then you come back and train again.

THRESHOLDS WILL INCLUDE:

4 In-person Immersions

two 6-day immersive overnight retreats (+ one more day for Practitioner Track)

two 4-day immersive overnight retreats (+ one more day for Practitioner Track)

*Retreats will start in the afternoon on the first day and end in the afternoon on the last day

Monthly Q & A Calls

1 hour live Zoom Q&A call with Leslie & Tani each month of the program (+ additional 30 minutes for Practitioner Track)

4 Online Zoom Intensives

One full day for Core Track participants (+ one additional full day of training for the Practitioner Track)

Live 1:1 Calls

Practitioner Track only - three 30 minute 1:1 coaching calls with either Tani or Leslie

Intimate Pod Gatherings

Your own small, intimate group that will meet (virtually or in-person) 1-2 times per month

Huge value:

• 20 days of in-person immersions (24 days for Practitioner Track)

• 4 days of live Zoom intensives (8 days for Practitioner Track)

• 7 hours of live Q&A calls with Tani & Leslie (10.5 hours for Practitioner Track)

• Ongoing intimate practice calls

INVESTMENT


The investment for this training is ALL-INCLUSIVE. Overnight accommodations and catering are included for each of the 4 in-person immersions. See FAQ section for details on accommodations.

THE CORE TRACK

Early Bird before August 15th: $12,500

Regular after August 15th: $13,500

*There will be a 4% charge for payments made by credit card.

Breakdown of pricing (early-bird):
Room & Board - $2,750
Program Tuition - $9,750


Core Track Includes:

20 in-person days:
‍ ‍↣↣ 2 all-inclusive 6 day in-person immersions
‍ ‍↣↣ 2 all-inclusive 4 day in-person immersions


4 live Zoom days:
‍ ‍↣↣ Saturday Zoom trainings once a month between in-person immersions


Additional monthly meetings:
‍ ‍↣↣ intimate pod sessions 1-2 times a month
‍ ‍↣↣ monthly 60 minute Q&A call with Tani & Leslie

THE PRACTITIONER TRACK

Early Bird before August 15th: $15,750

Regular after August 15th: $16,750

*There will be a 4% charge for payments made by credit card.

Breakdown of pricing (early-bird):
Room & Board - $3,500
Program Tuition - $12,250


Practitioner Track Includes:

24 in-person days:
‍ ‍↣↣ all the same immersions as Core Track plus a full extra day at each one


8 live Zoom days:
‍ ‍↣↣ Saturday & Sunday Zoom trainings once a month between in-person immersions


Additional monthly meetings:
‍ ‍↣↣ intimate pod sessions 1-2 times a month
‍ ‍↣↣ same monthly 60 minute Q&A call as Core Track + 30 extra minutes


3 one-on-one 30-minute coaching calls with either Tani or Leslie

OCTOBER

Opening Immersive Overnight Retreat in Lakeport, CA
Core Track: October 20th–25th
Practitioner Track: October 20th-26th

NOVEMBER

Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: November 7th
Practitioner Track: November 7th & 8th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT

DECEMBER

Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: December 19th
Practitioner Track: December 19th & 20th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT

JANUARY

Immersive Overnight Retreat in Philo, CA
Core Track: January 21st-24th
Practitioner Track: January 21st-25th

FEBRUARY

Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: February 13th
Practitioner Track: February 13th & 14th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT

MARCH

Immersive Overnight Retreat in Philo, CA
Core Track: March 11th-14th
Practitioner Track: March 11th-15th

APRIL

Live Zoom Intensive
Core Track: April 17th
Practitioner Track: April 17th & 18th
10:00am-12:30pm PT and 2:00pm-4:30pm PT

MAY

Closing Immersive Overnight Retreat in Lakeport, CA
Core Track: May 11th–16th
Practitioner Track: May 10th-16th (Please note: just for this closing immersion the extra day for Practitioner Track is at the beginning rather than the end)

***All in-person immersions will start in the afternoon of the first day and end in the afternoon on the last day.

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